You wouldn't believe me even if I told you my mom just doesn't understand me.
Recently my mom has been pushing me away from what I like or want while steering me towards what she "wants". I just find it ridiculous. Being an independent 17 year old who is very strong willed I know exactly what I do and do not like. For example: every time I go dress shopping or just regular clothes shopping, my mom passive aggressively gets me to try on stuff that she would wear. We get it. You would wear this if you could or you like to play dress up, but I DONT like everything you do. The whole point of growing up is being independent and makin. Decisions for yourself. I know that until you turn 18 your parents make the major decisions for you, but Ihavw been picking out my own clothes since I was 3! Moreover, I have been looking into colleges a lot recently, and my mom doesn't trust that I know I don't want to go to a small farm school or stay in the Midwest. I want to go to the east coast! Yeah, I have a friend who loves the school she goes to in DC but I like that college for my own reasons. So here is a message to all future or present moms out there: please stop trying to micromanage your daighter's lives and entrust in their independence and ability to make decisions on their own. Thank you and goodnight! ✌🏻️
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